The Whole Story
A Video-Based Course to help YOU give your daughter The Whole Story about Sex, Puberty, and Growing Up!
We're here to help.
Rebecca is a Psychology graduate and the author of the brand new book, Why I Didn’t Rebel: A 22-year-old explains why she stayed on the straight and narrow and how your kids can too!
Katie started a YouTube channel at 16 to get a boy’s attention. She’s now forgotten who he is–but she has 40,000 fans who tune in to hear her thoughts on what it means to live out your faith authentically in today’s culture.
The course is offered for two different age groups:
It includes everything your daughter needs to know about:
It includes everything your daughter needs to know about:
I took Rebecca, my oldest, away on a weekend when she was 10 1/2 and listened to another course. Its emphasis was on teaching purity–getting girls to promise not to have sex until they were married.
She was so grossed out she would have promised never to look at a boy again in her life!
My youngest asked for details when she was 8, and I guess I didn’t explain it well, because the next day she hugged me and said, “I’m so sorry you had to go through that to get me, Mommy, but thank you.”
Whoops.
I also forgot to teach her to shave. Forgot to get them emergency kits in case they “leaked”. Forgot to warn them about porn. Forgot to teach them what to do when their friends started getting into trouble.
As they got to be older teenagers we all got much more comfortable, and we’re really open now.
Get a single level if you have one daughter at a certain age level and you’ll just be working through one course with her (though the all level is a better deal, and will grow with your daughter!)
For Younger Girls (10-12):
For Older Girls (13-15):
Great for families with more than one daughter.
The Lifetime Access VIP membership is our most popular option. Start when the kids are young, watching the videos on teaching kids about sex slowly. Then preview the puberty ones so you’re ready! Then the course grows with your daughter–or daughters. And there are extra resources, extra mentoring videos, and more. And we’ll keep adding to it, too!
With the Lifetime Access VIP Version, you’ll also get:
Our VIPs really are VIPs! We’ll talk in Facebook, we’ll consider your questions when we’re writing more blog posts or hosting webinars, and we’re here to help! And we’ll be adding new things to the course, too. We’re planning on adding an ebook soon, and whenever we do parenting webinars? The recordings will be uploaded for you. It’s a chance for you to get all my parenting help–forever.
And right now, during our launch week, you can get the VIP access for the same price as the one-year access to the pared down version of the courses! It’s a no brainer.
$39.00
LEGACY: The Whole Story For Girls - VIP Package
I told them about their periods, but talking about porn? Masturbation? Peer pressure? I wasn’t as good at that.
And I was also really frustrated with the way that the resources that I did have available were slanting the whole conversation.
The guide I used when Rebecca hit puberty was all about purity–teaching her why sex was only for marriage. But at that age (she was 10), the thought of actually doing that wasn’t even on her radar.
She didn’t need to be convinced to wait until marriage. She needed to be convinced that it was a good thing at all!
And so we didn’t really delve too much into purity, because I thought the lessons would backfire. And then, when she was 14 and 15 and actually ready for those lessons, we had moved on.
That’s why we’ve arranged this course so that, for the younger girls, it’s more information based. We tell them what is happening and why, but we leave the emotional part until the older version. That’s when we delve into those hard topics that affect teenagers.
I found that so many girls today hit puberty when they’re still really young and before sexual feelings really start. Yet often that’s the last time moms talk to their daughters–when they hit puberty.
With The Whole Story, you can keep having those conversations!
Rebecca, when writing her book Why I Didn’t Rebel, found again and again that it was parents’ expectations of their children that made the biggest difference. When parents were authentic with their kids about their faith, and expected their kids to be authentic, too, then kids tended to follow Jesus easily. But when parents expected the worst, or didn’t tell the kids what they expected at all, kids tended to flounder.
Our philosophy in this course is that we’ll tell your kids the information and in general terms what God wants, but then we have discussion guidelines, checklists, and activity ideas so that you can have the real heart-to-heart with your daughter, in a stress-free way, about what guidelines you want her to have.
It’s what YOU think about modesty that matters. It’s the guidelines YOU have about dating and sex that matter.
I’m not raising your daughters, and my girls certainly aren’t raising them, either!
It’s YOUR values that matter.
So let us start those conversations at just the right ages, and then YOU can guide those conversations home.
WATCH FOR MOMS: Intro to Course
WATCH FOR MOMS: Our Philosophy for this Course
For Moms: What You Need to Know Before We Start
Print it: Your Course Guide!
UNIT 3 Extra: For Parents
BONUS: What to Expect Medically as Your Daughter Hits Puberty
BONUS [OCT 2018]: Your 5-day Challenge to Get Ready to Talk about Puberty Well
BONUS [OCT 2018] How to Deal with a Young Daughter Who Masturbates
BONUS: How to Explain "Good Touching/Bad Touching"
BONUS: Talking to Your Kids About Sex When They're Young!
Video: Welcome, and an introduction!
Discussion Questions: Let's Talk!
Video: Welcome to Your First Unit!
Video: All About Your Period
Lesson: What Is A Period, Anyway?
Video: How to Manage Your Period
FREE PREVIEWInfo: Where to Buy Your Own Cloth Pads (if you want to!)
BONUS: How to Make Your Own Cloth Pads
Video: PMS 101
Infographic: All About PMS
Video: Being Prepared for Your Period
Checklist: Creating Your First Period Kit
Discussion Questions: About Periods
Your Challenge!
Video: Welcome to Unit 2!
Video: Developing Breasts & Your First Training Bra
Video: What's on My Face?!
Video: All the Hairs on Your Head... and other places, too
Lesson: How Your Body Is Changing
Video: When You're the First One to Hit Puberty
Video: When You're the Last One to Hit Puberty
Checklist: Buying Your First Training Bra
Infographic: Finding Your Bra Size
Discussion Questions: All About Growing Up
Your Challenge!
Video: Let's Talk About Friends & Boys!
Video: All About Crushes
Watch it: Katie's Video on Reading Her Preteen Diaries!
Video: Why You Don't Need a Boyfriend
Video: How to Deal with Mean Boys
Video: Standing Strong | Bullying & Peer Pressure
Lesson: The Run-Down on Boys and Friends in the Preteen Years
Discussion Questions: Friends and Boys
Infographic: What God Says about Your Worth
Discussion Questions: Friends and Boys
Checklist: Mother-Daughter Date Ideas!
Your Challenge!
$39.00
LEGACY: The Whole Story For Girls - VIP Package