Do you find talking to your kids about sex, puberty, and relationships to be one of the scariest parts of parenting?


You’re in the right place!

We’ve created a course that can help YOU have those conversations with your kids–without it being so scary.

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Most parents feel woefully unprepared to talk to their children about sex.

What if I say something wrong?

How do I even get the conversation started?

I just find it really uncomfortable!

And because we feel so scared, too often we make it uncomfortable for our kids, too!

But what if you had HELP starting that conversation?

What if your son had a cool and trustworthy young man who wasn’t afraid to talk about the hard stuff?

What if all you had to do was continue the conversation, when the hard part was already taken care of?

This video-based course features trustworthy, Christian young people teaching your children about everything they need to know about sex, puberty and growing up.

And then has discussion questions, checklists, and parent-child activities so that you can keep that conversation going!

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Meet your instructors for The Whole Story:

Sheldon is your son's guide through The Whole Story

TV host, Author, and proud dad

Sheldon Neil

Sheldon Neil is a leading communicator. Demystifying the issues facing everyday people, while leaving audiences with a spark to start living their best life is his noted passion. An international speaker, TV host and ordained faith leader, he has been featured in ministry initiatives with world-faith leaders such as, TD Jakes. He holds a Bachelors Degree in Journalism, and is the author of the book, "The 180 Devotional." He is also the Host and Executive Producer of the TV show, "Outside the Box, with Sheldon Neil," which reaches over 6 million Canadians. Sheldon Neil is happily married to Alicia Neil. They are proud parents to their wonderful daughter, Reigan-Sijourney, and son, Edison-Hendrix. Sheldon is excited to be a part of the Whole Story curriculum resource. With a heart to inform and inspire, he’s pleased to be on the frontlines providing insightful resources to people in need.

Sheila is the parents' guide through the course

Award-Winning Author, Blogger, and Speaker

Sheila Gregoire

Sheila Wray Gregoire is a popular speaker, marriage blogger, and the author of eight books, including The Good Girl’s Guide to Great Sex. She's known as the "Christian sex lady", and witnesses daily through her blog and emails the impact that early views of sex have on women. She's passionate about teaching about sexuality in a healthy, godly way, especially to young women. The mom to two adult daughters, she spends most of her time in her RV with her husband, speaking around North America. But you can find her on her blog To Love, Honor and Vacuum, which attracts over 1,000,000 page views per month.

This course is not a REPLACEMENT for you. It's a RESOURCE for you.

We start the conversations, but you get to finish them.

Here's why we think you're going to love this course:


These conversations are too important to leave up to chance. 

Tell your son The Whole Story now. 

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The Whole Story Course Materials (More materials coming this week!):

  • 1

    Parents' Resources for The Whole Story for Boys (10-13)

    • For Parents - How to Use the Course

    • A Talk with a Doctor: What are the Signs of Puberty for Boys?

    • Talking to Your Son about Porn

  • 2

    Single Moms' Corner

    • Pep Talk for Single Moms

    • Discussion Questions and Activity Swaps for Moms (The Whole Story 10-13)

    • Discussion Questions and Activity Swaps for Moms (The Whole Story 14-16)

  • 3

    For BOYS: Welcome to The Whole Story for Boys Ages 10-13!

    • Welcome to The Whole Story!

    • Meet Sheldon!

    • Meet David and Connor!

    • Your Complete Workbook (to print if desired)

    • Let's get started: Your First Discussion Questions

  • 4

    Unit 1: All About Sex

    • Introduction to Unit 1

    • What is sex, anyway?

    • Why God made sex the way He did

    • What you need to know about pornography

    • Unit 1 Run-Down with David and Connor

    • Unit 1 Lesson: What Is Sex?

    • Unit 1 Discussion Questions

    • Unit 1 Activity: Learning to Talk About the Hard Things

    • Optional for Parents: Covenant Eyes' Resources for talking about porn in a healthy way

  • 5

    Unit 2: Body Changes & Puberty

  • 6

    Unit 3: Friendships, Crushes, and Social Pressure

    • Intro to Unit 3

    • Let's Talk Bullying and Peer Pressure

    • All about Crushes and How to Handle Them

    • Why You Don't Need to Date in Middle School

    • Unit 3 Run-Down with David and Connor

    • Unit 3 Lesson: Friendships, Dating, and Peer Pressure

    • Unit 3 Discussion Questions

    • Unit 3 Activity: Creating Traditions

    • For Parents: What You Need to Know about Bullying and Your Kid's Social Life

  • 7

    Unit 4: Becoming a Man of God

    • Intro to Unit 4

    • Becoming a Man of God

    • Why It's Important to Treat Girls with Respect

    • How to Be an Encouragement to Your Guy-Friends

    • What it Means to Become a Man of Good Character

    • Unit 4 Run-Down with David and Connor

    • Unit 4 Lesson: Growing Up with Good Character

    • Unit 4 Discussion Questions

    • Unit 4 Activity: Treating Mom Right

    • Bonus Content: 35 Conversation Starters with Mom

  • 8

    Unit 5: Taking Care of Yourself

    • Intro to Unit 5

    • Learning to Do Your Own Laundry

    • Keeping it Fresh: Showering, Deodorant, and Wearing Clean Clothes

    • The Nitty Gritty Details of Keeping Clean

    • Dealing with and Preventing Acne

    • Unit 5 Lesson: Growing Up & Hygiene

    • Unit 5 Discussion Question

    • Unit 5 Activity: Making a Personal Hygiene Checklist

    • Unit 5 Run-Down with David and Connor

  • 9

    Welcome to The Whole Story for Boys Ages 14-16!

    • Welcome to The Whole Story!

    • Meet Sheldon!

    • Meet David and Connor!

    • Your Full Worksheet (to print option)

    • Introduction Discussion Questions

    • A Word Regarding the Activities

  • 10

    Unit 1: Puberty through the Teenage Years

  • 11

    Unit 2: Social Changes and Issues

    • Intro to Unit 2

    • Staying True to Your Morals: Drinking, Partying, and Sex

    • Bullying: When You're Being Bullied, and How Not to Become the Bully

    • To Date or Not To Date: Relationships in High School

    • What To Do If You Find Out Your Friend is Having Sex

    • Unit 2 Run-Down with David and Connor

    • Unit 2 Lesson: Friends, Peers, Bullies, and More

    • Unit 2 Discussion Questions

    • Unit 2 Activity: Equipping Your Mind

  • 12

    Unit 3: All about Sex

  • 13

    Unit 4: Becoming a Man of God

    • Intro to Unit 4

    • Becoming a Man of God

    • What It Means to Treat Women with Respect

    • Taking Charge of Your Spiritual Life

    • Following His Voice: Finding Your Identity in God

    • Unit 4 Run-Down with David and Connor

    • Unit 4 Lesson: What it Means to be a Man of God

    • Unit 4 Discussion Questions

    • Unit 4 Activity: Taking Mom on a Date

    • Bonus Content: Conversation Starters for Taking Mom on a Date

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    Unit 5: Taking Care of Yourself

    • Intro to Unit 5

    • Keeping it Fresh: Taking Care of Body Odor

    • The Nitty Gritty Details of Keeping Clean

    • Shaving 101

    • Building Healthy Habits

    • Dealing with Acne

    • Unit 5 Run-Down with David and Connor

    • Unit 5 Lesson: Staying Healthy in Your Teenage Years

    • Unit 5 Discussion Questions

    • Unit 5 Activity: Creating a Personal Hygiene Routine

    • How-To Tips for Hygiene Habits

  • 15

    VIP Package Bonus Unit - Video Games

    • Introduction: Dealing with Games, Netflix, and more

    • A Talk with a Doctor: On Screen Time and Developing Healthy Habits

    • For Parents: How to Re-Claim Screen Time For Your Family

    • How do you know if you spend too much time on your computer? (10-13)

    • Making Wise Decisions About Quality and Quantity of Screen Time (14-16)

    • Getting the Important Stuff Done First: Setting Priorities with Time

    • Discussion Questions: Is This Appropriate to Watch/Play?

    • A Note Re: The Content Checklist

    • Checklist: Identifying Good and Bad Content

  • 16

    VIP Bonus Unit - Spiritual Development as a Family

    • Scripture Memorization Challenge for Families

  • 17

    VIP Bonuses - Resources and Help for Parents

    • NEW! Q&A with Sheila and Rebecca: Common Parenting Questions and Tough Parenting Scenarios

    • BONUS How to Deal with a Young Child Who Masturbates

    • BONUS: Addressing Your Roadblocks to Talking about Puberty Well

    • Vision Planning Worksheet for Parents

    • BONUS: Talking to Your Younger Child about Good Touch/Bad Touch

    • BONUS: Talking to Younger Children about Sex

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    $59.00The Whole Story: Complete (Boys & Girls)

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Don't want the full VIP version? 

You can also buy The Whole Story for each individual age group. These options include 12 month access, the complete course for each age, but no lifetime access or any of the bonus materials. 

The Whole Story for Boys ages 10-13

The Whole Story for Boys ages 14-16

Get The Whole Story for Boys (VIP Package). 

Because your child deserves to know The Whole Story–in a safe way, and from you.

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