The Whole Story VIP Version
What if talking to your daughter about sex didn't have to be so AWKWARD?


We're here to help.

 

The Whole Story

A Video-Based Course to help YOU give your daughter The Whole Story about Sex, Puberty, and Growing Up!

Do you find talking to your daughter about sex, puberty, and boys
to be one of the scariest parts of parenting?

You’re in the right place!

We’ve created a faith-based course that can help YOU have those conversations with your daughter–
without it being so scary.
Most parents feel woefully unprepared 
to talk to their daughters about sex.
And because we feel so scared, 

too often we make it uncomfortable for our daughters, too.


But what if you had HELP starting that conversation?
What if your daughter could hear about the hard stuff from “funny big sisters”, and then you could continue the conversation in a much more stress-free way?


This video based course features two young people teaching your daughter about everything they need to know about sex, puberty and growing up--all from a biblical perspective.

And then each unit has discussion questions, checklists, and mother-daughter activities so that you can keep that conversation going!

Because this is too important a conversation to leave up to chance.
Meet Your Mentor as You Guide Your Daughter Through Puberty! 
 Sheila Wray Gregoire is an award-winning author, blogger, and speaker who specializes in parenting, marriage, and healthy sexuality. Every month, over half a million readers land on her blog to read about creating healthy families, and 40,000 women receive her emails. Sheila has been featured on:


Meet Your Daughter’s Guides to Sex, Puberty, & Growing Up!

(They’re like funny big sisters!)

Rebecca Gregoire Lindenbach
Age: 22     Married: Yes!

Rebecca is a Psychology graduate and the author of the brand new book, Why I Didn’t Rebel: A 22-year-old explains why she stayed on the straight and narrow and how your kids can too!

Katie Elizabeth Gregoire
Age: 20    Married: Nope

Katie started a YouTube channel at 16 to get a boy’s attention. She’s now forgotten who he is–but she has 40,000 fans who tune in to hear her thoughts on what it means to live out your faith authentically in today’s culture.

The course is offered for two different age groups:


Moms and their Younger Girls Ages 10-12


The younger version is information based about the changes her body is going through.

It includes everything your daughter needs to know about:

  • Her period, including why it happens, how to handle it, and how to make it most comfortable.
  • Other body changes she will be experiencing, including breast development, hair growth, and body odor.
  • What sex is and how babies are made.
  • How to handle boys and peer pressure in the preteen years.
  • How to take care of your body to manage all of these changes.


Yes! I want the younger version!


Moms and their Older Girls Ages 13-15


The older version is more world-view based about the social changes she’s going through.

It includes everything your daughter needs to know about:

  • How to troubleshoot issues with your period that aren’t often talked about.
  • Navigating relationships with guys in the teenage years.
  • Discussions about how to handle social issues like when friends make mistakes, bullying, and online peer pressure.
  • Candid conversation about the highly sexualized world we live in and how to honor God in the midst of that.
  • Learning the skill of styling yourself to send a message–a message that honors God and shows respect for yourself and others


Yes! I want the one for teenagers!

Do you find yourself asking: 

WHEN do I tell her WHAT? 
What’s age appropriate? 
How do I even start the hard conversations about puberty or sex–let alone say words like “menstruation” or “penis”? 
How can I make sure she knows everything she needs to know? What do I do when SHE seems embarrassed to talk about things?

 Or worst of all,
What if she knows what her father and I are doing now?

The younger version covers all of this!


Or do you find yourself asking: 

How can I teach her the real meaning behind sex? 
How can I help her withstand peer pressure and deal with pornography and body image issues? 
How can I help her have healthy relationships with boys? 

 Or most of all,

How do I keep her talking to me at all?

The older version covers all of this!

The course isn’t a REPLACEMENT for you.

It’s a RESOURCE for you to start those conversations in a natural, unintimidating way– so that you can continue them for years to come.

I sure didn’t handle talking to my daughters about sex and puberty well!

I took Rebecca, my oldest, away on a weekend when she was 10 1/2 and listened to another course. Its emphasis was on teaching purity–getting girls to promise not to have sex until they were married.

She was so grossed out she would have promised never to look at a boy again in her life!

My youngest asked for details when she was 8, and I guess I didn’t explain it well, because the next day she hugged me and said, “I’m so sorry you had to go through that to get me, Mommy, but thank you.”

Whoops. 

I also forgot to teach her to shave. Forgot to get them emergency kits in case they “leaked”. Forgot to warn them about porn. Forgot to teach them what to do when their friends started getting into trouble.

I was teaching about sex from the stage, but it was so hard when it was my own daughters!

As they got to be older teenagers we all got much more comfortable, and we’re really open now.

But we wanted to create for you the course that I wish I had had when my girls were younger–

So that you can avoid all the mistakes that I made! (and here we are joking about it)

With mobile-friendly video lessons and an option to print out your course guide!

The Whole Story is here–ready to take the stress out of having “the talk” with your daughter!

Single Level


Get a single level if you have one daughter at a certain age level and you’ll just be working through one course with her (though the all level is a better deal, and will grow with your daughter!)

For Younger Girls (10-12): 

  • 24 Videos featuring Rebecca and Katie
  • Sheila to help guide you through the course
  • 17 text documents, 13 pdfs, and 1 giant workbook to help cement the lessons, start discussions, and laugh through together!
  • 12 months access

$39


For Older Girls (13-15):

  • 23 Videos featuring Rebecca and Katie
  • 5 Audio Guides from Sheila with tips on how to work through the course
  • 14 pdfs, 16 texts, 1 giant workbook, with checklists, printables, and mother-daughter activities
  • 12 months access

$39



All Level


 Great for families with more than one daughter.

  • 47 Videos featuring Rebecca and Katie
  • Intro Videos and 5 audios from Sheila guiding you through the course 
  • Over 50 checklists, pdf downloads, mother-daughter activity challenges, and more!  
  • 12 months access

$69


All Level + VIP!


The only way to access your classes forever – teach any number of daughters, and the course grows with you!

  • Both levels 
  • 47 videos for daughters, 34 text documents, 29 pdfs, 2 giant workbooks, and 12 audios from Sheila to guide you through the course
  • LIFETIME access 
  • Exclusive Facebook group
  • EXTRA parenting audios covering how to talk about sex to younger children and how to teach good-touch bad-touch
  • FREE enrollment into 5 parenting webinars for moms of teens that Sheila and Rebecca will be hosting–that you can listen to any time

$99

The Lifetime Access VIP membership is our most popular option. Start when the kids are young, watching the videos on teaching kids about sex slowly. Then preview the puberty ones so you’re ready! Then the course grows with your daughter–or daughters. And there are extra resources, extra mentoring videos, and more. And we’ll keep adding to it, too! 

With the Lifetime Access VIP Version, you’ll also get:

Unlock the Mystery of Talking to Younger Kids about Sex
Get a mentoring video from Sheila about how to talk to younger children about sex–plus lots of extra resources that you can read at your leisure to prepare you for those awkward questions from your kids!


Learn from a Physician So You Know When Something’s a Problem
Ever wondered if your daughter’s cramps are normal–or over the top? What if she’s skipping periods? Or having ones that last too long? What if your daughter is 13 and nothing’s happened yet–or she’s 9 and there’s tons happening already! Sheila’s husband Keith is a pediatrician, and he’ll reassure you about what things are normal, and when you need to go and talk to a doctor
.


Get Access to Parenting Webinars about Parenting Teens
In October 2017, Sheila and Rebecca will be hosting some parenting webinars–and you’ll get lifetime access to them. In fact, you can even submit your questions so that we’ll cover the things that are bothering you most! Rebecca has done research into what makes millennials stick with the faith, and what sends them in the opposite direction. Listen to what millennials are saying so that you can point your children in the right direction–in a way that they’ll understand!


Receive Extra Mother-Daughter Activity Ideas, and More!
The VIP access contains extra ideas for mother-daughter conversation and fun, so that you can work on growing your relationship even after you’ve watched The Whole Story videos.


Our VIPs really are VIPs! We’ll talk in Facebook, we’ll consider your questions when we’re writing more blog posts or hosting webinars, and we’re here to help! And we’ll be adding new things to the course, too. We’re planning on adding an ebook soon, and whenever we do parenting webinars? The recordings will be uploaded for you. It’s a chance for you to get all my parenting help–forever.

And right now, during our launch week, you can get the VIP access for the same price as the one-year access to the pared down version of the courses! It’s a no brainer.  


I found it easier to tell my girls the basics about the facts of life than I did to add the personal element to it as they grew into teens.

I told them about their periods, but talking about porn? Masturbation? Peer pressure? I wasn’t as good at that.

And I was also really frustrated with the way that the resources that I did have available were slanting the whole conversation.

The guide I used when Rebecca hit puberty was all about purity–teaching her why sex was only for marriage. But at that age (she was 10), the thought of actually doing that wasn’t even on her radar.

She didn’t need to be convinced to wait until marriage. She needed to be convinced that it was a good thing at all!

And so we didn’t really delve too much into purity, because I thought the lessons would backfire. And then, when she was 14 and 15 and actually ready for those lessons, we had moved on.

That’s why we’ve arranged this course so that, for the younger girls, it’s more information based. We tell them what is happening and why, but we leave the emotional part until the older version. That’s when we delve into those hard topics that affect teenagers.

I found that so many girls today hit puberty when they’re still really young and before sexual feelings really start. Yet often that’s the last time moms talk to their daughters–when they hit puberty.

And then, when they really need us, we’ve forgotten how to have those conversations.

With The Whole Story, you can keep having those conversations!

But we don’t aim to replace you. This is just a resource to START those conversations.

Rebecca, when writing her book Why I Didn’t Rebel, found again and again that it was parents’ expectations of their children that made the biggest difference. When parents were authentic with their kids about their faith, and expected their kids to be authentic, too, then kids tended to follow Jesus easily. But when parents expected the worst, or didn’t tell the kids what they expected at all, kids tended to flounder.

Our philosophy in this course is that we’ll tell your kids the information and in general terms what God wants, but then we have discussion guidelines, checklists, and activity ideas so that you can have the real heart-to-heart with your daughter, in a stress-free way, about what guidelines you want her to have.

It’s what YOU think about modesty that matters. It’s the guidelines YOU have about dating and sex that matter.

I’m not raising your daughters, and my girls certainly aren’t raising them, either!

It’s YOUR values that matter.

So let us start those conversations at just the right ages, and then YOU can guide those conversations home.

What's included?

49 Videos
34 Texts
29 PDFs
12 Audios
2 Downloads

Course Curriculum

Introduction (13-15): How this Course Works
Unit 5 (13-15): Showing Respect for Yourself and Your Body